Swingers

Why would couples want to become swingers, why would they want to have sex with someone else especially if they're supposed to be in love with each other?Well that's because these couples do not associate having a sexual relationship with someone other then their spouse as love; its strictly sex. Swingers are so comfortable in their relationship with their partners that they show their love by not holding their partner back from new sexual experiences. Basically, for swingers, being with another partner is all about sex, not romance. The core relationship for swingers is what gives their lives stability. It is almost a friends with benefits situation, but the core relationship is based on romance. If anything their relationship with other people falls into the friends with benefits category.

Swinging is a personal choice for many couples who often view sexual intercourse with anybody other than their significant other as recreational play. Some people however get into swinging for the wrong reasons. It could be that their partner is into swinging and they want make them happy by getting into it themselves.  Perhaps their relationship is failing so that the excitement is long gone; so they get into swinging hoping to bring back what they once had. Getting into swinging for these reason's is not the route you want to take because it usually just leads to a breakup. Successful swinging requires a loving, and not possessive relationship between both partners in the relationship. 

 
To emphasize the point, swinging is a lifestyle for couples who have very loving and close relationships. Mutual understanding and a strong foundation are vital factors in being a swinger. It is also very important to have a partner that understands why you want to enter this lifestyle. Swingers require open and strong communications with each other to be successful. Those who have equal understanding will learn that swinging can be and invigorating and relationship stimulating adventure. Swinging can appeal to your sexual and recreational needs, including fantasies and desires that you can explore together rather than apart. Swinging is very much about sharing experiences with each other which in turn will strengthen your sexual and emotional growth.

Just remember that it takes two to tango well.
Swinging is, and continues to be, increasingly popular for couples as well as all races. Swinging began in the early 50s in the rich suburbs of the United States. At that time swinging was not a common thing and the only way back then to meet other swingers would either be through news paper ads or through other swingers.

All of this has changed drastically through the years and especially since the launch of the Internet. At this time, not only are there swingers clubs in most major cities, you are now able to go online and find dozens of swingers sites to meet new friends. These sites offer you the chance to connect to and meet other swingers like yourselves who are interested in getting together for a good time. So if you happen to be a swinger or want to get into swinging, here is the site for you:

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