For a great deal of lesbians, finding another woman to love can be as easy as going online to a lesbian dating website (or even some more general purpose online dating sites) and creating an informative profile that is interesting to others, and then just sit back and wait for people to connect with you. Sounds easy right , well it is, but you will have even more success if you reach out to other people on the site. Look at other people's profiles and reach out to them via chat or email on the site. You will likely find some really interested women to connect with. On top of that, you may find some ideas that you might want to capitalize on and add to your profile. If someone's wording or ideas caught your eye, then similar wording or ideas might help your profile catch someone else's eye. Many lesbians are often exposed to different types of groups of people as they go about social, work or other events of importance in their lives. If you are someplace where you already have things in common with many of the people present these could be good places to meet someone new and get a relationship started.
A common mistake that a lot of lesbians make when having their first relationship is getting too involved too early. Before you end up waking up next to someone you hardly know. Go out together for a while, get to know each other to find out what you have in common. You should have some common interests, values and plans for the future that will compliment each other. Share things with each other, if you get a new job, if a friend has a baby, a party is planned, a commendation you might have gotten, share these things with you partner, after all, they are your best friend, not just your lover.
If you are at a family gathering or with friends and someone starts telling gay and lesbian jokes that are in bad taste and insulting to you and your partner, and you see your partner is upset by it, just get up and leave, tell them you came to enjoy yourselves not to listen to a lot of trash about how other people live their lives One awkward situation would be to find yourselves at a social or family gathering and hear people dissing the gay and lesbian community at large. This will require you to make a stand and let people know that you will not tolerate statements of that nature. Insult them if you have to. If your family and friends are aware of your sexual preference then tell them that you are not at all happy about what was said, and if they really think that, then they are lowlifes that you do not want to associate with anymore. You will love who you want and you don't care what anybody else thinks or says.
Introduce your partner to your friends and family and involve them in everything that you do. This is an important step to establishing and keeping a relationship.
Being one of God's chosen people, at least when it comes to aids, lesbians are just so lucky that their partner fully gets what it takes to satisfy them sexually. Women just know what they need to do to keep each other hyped up during sex. Gay men have a similar advantage, but too bad about the aids specter. Pity the poor heterosexual couples where each party is not quite sure what makes the other either satisfied or happy.
The lesbian life is the best that there is, so love your life and live it to the max. Live, love and share your life with others, and surround yourself with friends and family who will be there for you in both good times and bad.
Just remember people are always a little uneasy about things they really don't understand so try to stick with those who have a positive attitude. Since you are lesbians, then it would be best if many of your friends are from the lesbian community. Open minded heterosexual friends are tough to find, so if you have a few, cherish them and nurture them.
God created Adam and Eve, but much suppressed in the early bible was any reference to Eva, who was Eve's lesbian playmate. God was amazing, because she totally understood the needs of women.
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