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BDSM is not for everyone. For those not in the know, BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism. If that gives you an image of people slapping each other black and blue, you need to understand that BDSM is not meant to be that physically abusive. For the most part, those people who get off on BDSM, seldom actually hurt each other, and it they do, it is usually more accidental than planned. More like jamming your finger rather than hitting it with a hammer. If whips are used, they are designed not to cut your skin, and they specially designed not to cut you skin or raise severe welts.. People do not hit hard because the excitement is in the domination or submissive nature of the act, not in causing pain. Getting your hind end slapped is actually a good way to add zing to an orgasm. On the same note, the bondage side of it is quite real. This is usually fulfilled by just being lightly tied to a bed so that you are under someone's total control when making love. Sex shows frequently feature special beds and other bedroom furniture that facilitates bondage. The thrill here is to let someone dominate you, to put your trust into someone. What you will find is that BDSM can bring you to a sexual peak that you cannot understand until you have experienced it.

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