SINGLES CHAT
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Singles Chat Line
What is a chat line? They are essentially a way for people to communicate, either by phone, or via video chatting online. Some services will allow you to chat with several people at once. There are also online chat services that allow you to connect with other people from around the world through the Internet. Chat line services offer friendship, the possibility for a relationship, or even phone sex. Chat lines are becoming increasingly popular and more and more people are using them. The number of choices can be overwhelming, but if you take your time and choose carefully, it should not be a problem.
Telephone Chatting
Chat services are incredibly easy. Just pick up your phone, call the number, and chat. The first time in you will have to record a personal verbal profile of yourself, but that is not asked for on subsequent visits.
What is so popular about phone chat? Well here are a few reason's:
1)Chat lines are just about the easiest way to interact with other people. It is a form of communication that we have all grown up with and are all proficient at.
2)You can review other peoples verbal profiles and get a feel for how interesting a person might be before ever wasting your time contacting them. You will also have the chance to set up your own verbal advertisement to sell yourself, as the interesting person that you are, to others.
3)With these chat lines it is easy for you to meat people locally. This is not always easy to do these days, people just don't have the time on their hands they used to have so phone chat lines are very convenient. This is one of the main reasons why they are so popular.
4)Phone chat lines give you the opportunity to use their live chat to talk to someone that you have something in common with and someone that may interest you. This is a good way to get to know them so you can decide if you want to take it a step further and actually meet them in person.
5)You are completely anonymous, and nobody is ever going to be able to hack your phone on a chat line. It is simply one of the safest and worry free forms of meeting people.
6)Many phone chat services also allow you to anonymously text message people that you are becoming more friendly with. This allows you to keep your communications going all day, even if you are not both on the chat line at the same time.
Phone chat lines will always be around and will always be popular for those looking to meet someone interesting and special, and for those just looking for someone they can call friend and share a few laughs with .
Online Video Chat
Online chatting has been considered a tremendous success when it comes to starting a long term friendship or relationship. Everyday more people are turning to the Internet to find other people like themselves also looking for that special somebody, someone who shares the same passions, interests and goals. Some are very much interested in finding their life partner and chatting is a good way to break the ice and is seen as a good starting point. Over the years many adults have found genuine loving relationships that actually lead to happy marriages, most of these happy endings were started by the simple act of chatting.
There are several advantages to online chat such as:
1)You can be completely anonymous and feel safe knowing that you only give out as much info about yourself as you want.
2)You have the possibility of connecting with just about any person of the opposite sex anywhere in the world.
3)If you're gay or lesbian its nice to know that there are hundreds of chatting sites you can use to connect to other gays and lesbians seeking someone to share your life with.
4)You can connect solely with people who have the same interests and passions as yourself.
5)You can also learn about other country’s and cultures by chatting with people online from other parts of the world. You also have the opportunity to exchange photo's and even recipes from other country’s, think of the possibilities, there have been a lot of long term relationships made by people from other country's who met on an online chat site.
6)Online chat lines have such a wide appeal for not only singles but seniors, married couples, adults, christian singles, lesbians, gays the list goes on. You can use online chat lines to connect to long lost friends as well as family members you may have lost contact with over the years, the possibilities are absolutely endless.
7)With online chat you don't necessarily have to be looking or a relationship with someone, you can use online chat to meet and start long term friendships with people in your own town or from around the world.
Online Chat as well as Phone Chat also have their disadvantages, these are a few things to remember when using either one.
1)People can hide their true identity.
2)People can lie about their marital status.
3)People can be dishonest about their age and sex.
4)People can hide their true character.
5)People can hide their true intentions.
6)People can also hide and lie about their criminal background.
7)People online can be a sexual predator so be careful before meeting
Never the less, using reasonable caution, all the risk associated with online and phone chatting can be totally eliminated. So now that you know the risks and rewards of online chatting, you are likely ready to try it out. You will find a link below to a site that has a lot of chatting services mentioned. It is one of the best places to find great chat services.
http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/videodating.php
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
The Most Common Problems Dating Woman
If you are looking for tips on dating women, then this information will give you a few courses of action. When you treat your woman right on a first date, they will will want to date you again, no matter what your financial position is or how you look. There is one key success factor, and that is charm, charm, charm. Although there is such a thing as too nice, girls will tend to forgive that. There is however, a few things you should not do such as:
1) Do not be too subservient such as
a. Making her feel so important that you lower your status to be less than hers. If you are praising her or giving her a complement, couch it as a double entendre. You will achieve the complement yet still appearing to be a person of substance and stature.
b. Asking her to compare you former lovers – on a first date you will always come up short. Do not force this comparison early; it is too soon to get into this level of feedback.
c. Delegating control of the date to her. Questions should not be open ended. If you are not sure of where she would like to go, then give her short list of things to do next. If she is not happy with any of the choices, then you have have not done sufficient research as to what her needs are. You have screwed up, you deserve to be dumped. (On subsequent dates, you can solicit input, but on a first date you should appear to be on top, considerate, but flexible).
2) The next fault is trying to impress her too much. Do not crow and breast beat, and do not say how much money you make. Just be a reasonably attentive partner, listen to her, and pay the tab. Date one is female centric, it is not about you. If she asks questions, then answer them in something more than one word answers, but , or else you are in the danger zone of coming across in a negative light.
3) Do not put her on a pedestal. That advice is more important if the woman is very pretty. Beautiful women are used to being on a pedestal. Did you ever notice how often that really attractive women are dating bad boys? That is because bad boys treat them normally and they feel like they are being appreciated for who they are. In many cases the bad boys treat them like crap, but they like that because it is just different, and different is special to them. Nothing is more tiring to sexy women as unwanted attention – they have heard it all before. The better thing to do is to just ask them something about themselves, such as what they do, what interests them, etc.
4) Being exclusive too soon in a relationship. Both you and her should be obviously playing the field initially. If you come across as someone who would commit exclusively either on or just after the first date, you will seem needy and diminished in their eyes. No woman wants to be dating a needy loser. You have to come across as successful in relationships, and therefore more interesting in her eyes.
If you are having trouble finding the woman of your dreams, then try the following pages to help you zero in on the type of woman that you desire:
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Adult Dating
Senior Dating
Gay
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Swingers
Dating Couples
Top Dating Personals
Top 100 Dating
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Sunday, September 16, 2012
I Should Have Called The Police!
Maybe a better name for this story is Cindy's evil date. I am Cindy by the way.
When this story unfolded, I was working as a clerk in a 7-11 store just outside of Boston. Not to sound conceited, but men have always hit on me a lot, so I am sort of used to it in a way. This particular guy seemed really nice, and had been working on me for months before I finally relented. In actual fact, we had actually met in a chat room online about the same time I started working in the store. I picked a crowded public venue to meet him at. I was not about to let anybody pick me up for a first date. It was something that my mother had always impressed on me. We met at a restaurant, and since it was a nice night, we opted to eat outside. Here is where he got a little odd…. first he gives me a a little box of chocolates the brand name was Cindy (my name is Cindy so I thought at first that it was a cute gesture) then he asks me to eat one or two in a strange creepy way. When we finished the hors d'oeuvres he started to ply me with chocolates. Making a game of it by getting me to eat it looking as sexy as I could. I was feeling a bit light headed, and put that down to the wine we were drinking, but was confused because I had only had a sip or two. At the point that we started to eat our entrees, he started to stare at me really closely. It was almost creepy, but for some reason, I was not overly alarmed.
My first sip of wine was really good. But I noticed that after a while that the wine was not tasting as good for some reason. I could not place the change other than the fact that it was not as appealing to me as when I first sipped it.
I was part way through the main course when the entire situation started to weird me out. I made my excuses and went to the washroom to call a good friend of mine to explain the situation. I was worried that maybe I was blowing this all out of proportion. My friend was a bit concerned, but told me to just brave it out because I was most of the way through the date already. She just said to make sure that I did not go anywhere with him afterwards. So I returned to the table and he gives me another chocolate. What did I know at that tender age? I just went with it. I was hoping that it would become funnier. Since I had never had anything like this ever happen to me before, I decided that I would just finish the rest of the date and chalk it all up to experience.
I was feeling a bit shaky about everything, and I nervously took a drink of my wine, that turned into more of a large gulp. As soon as the wine entered my mouth I could tell something was wrong. It was awful! I casually put it down as if I had noticed nothing. I could tell that something was in the wine, and it was obvious to me that he had done it. I was suddenly in the middle of a nightmare! I sat there a bit thinking about what to do. I did not want to tip him off at all. I decided that it would be best to pretend to take a few more sips, so I did so. After about a half hour of stalling and making small talk, I laughingly told him that the wine must be getting to me because I had to go to the washroom again.
I wanted to get out of there ASAP! I had another waiter bring mine over where I could talk to him without being seen from my table. I gave him the skinny and told him I needed help. He had another waiter escort me out the back door to my car while he went back to my table to keep my date distracted. I quickly hauled my butt to my friends house. Luckily she only lived a few blocks away because by the time I got there I was ready to pass out. After convincing my friend I did not need any medical attention we laid down and listened to some music and eventually I fell asleep. I woke up a little hung over, and it was not from the small amounts of wine I had consumed the night before. With a clearer head, it became apparent to me that the scumbag had likely laced my wine and likely the chocolates with some sort of drug. I realized that I had had a close call and was lucky to get out of it unscathed.
When I reflect on that night, I have always wished that I had had the presence of mind to call the police while I was still at the restaurant. I have three excuses for not doing that. The first was that I was under the influence of the drug. The second is that I was young and stupid. And the third is that I was scared out of my wits. In the state of mind I was in, it was all I could do to focus on getting out with my skin intact. I was lucky that most of the security guards at the mall were friends of mine. I told them about the creep and showed them his picture. For several weeks they kept careful watch and escorted me out to my car. To my intense relief, I never saw hide nor hair of him again.
It took me a while to realize my original mistake. I had put too much information on my dating profile, including my place of work. What a moron I was! The whole night could have ended much worse than it did. I thank my lucky stars that I had a mother who loved me. One who nagged me stupid about the perverts out there and what sorts of care I should take when going on dates.
For more advice with online dating, see the link below:
Dating Advice
Friday, August 24, 2012
Sleeping With A Snake!
I first met him at the bus stop. He took the same bus as I did to go to work each day and we would usually joke and chat. He was always a perfect gentleman. We both worked down town right across the street from each other so it was just a matter of time before we met in the food court. That day finally came, we bumped into each other in a line while waiting to pay for lunch and he asked to sit with me. I agreed and we spent the rest of our lunch hour talking and laughing about almost nothing. I thought to my self what a great guy and not bad looking either. But as you know, looks can sometimes be misleading.
He was recently divorced and was still adjusting to single life. He said that dating again was the toughest thing to get used to. I agreed as I was also divorced as well so I understood what he was taking about. He seemed very surprised to find out that I to was divorced, he said that any man would be an idiot to give me up. I said how sweet of you to say that. “Well its true!” he said. “You are pretty special in my eyes, and I would give my eye teeth if you would go out with me”. So we ended up agreeing to go on a date together.
We had so many things in common. It was inevitable that we very quickly hit it off in a major way. Since both of us were a bit gun shy, we decided to take things a bit slow at first. As we got to know each other better, it was just a matter of time before we felt ready to make the next step. I guess it was only right for both of us to be a little nervous. Even so, we both made a commitment to go to his cottage for a romantic interlude the next weekend.
Well the day came and he drove down to my house to pick me up for our romantic weekend get away. As a matter of fact that’s exactly what I should have told him, “GET AWAY”, but like a love starved teenager I had fallen for a handsome face and a sad story. To my disappointment, the love nest that I had imagined turned out to be about the size of a small woodshed, and the roof had fallen in to boot. It needed a ton of work. I had no idea what he was thinking to take me (or any woman for that matter) there. I am not a super particular person most of the time, but this was so far below my expectations that I was entirely speechless! We had to sleep in a very small tent that I discovered had a very large snake inside. As I fled into the night screaming in fear, he ran behind me asking what he could do to make the situation more livable. I said I was scared because that is not the type of snake I was expecting!
The next morning I politely packed my things, thanked him for a somewhat interesting evening and told him that I just didn't think it would work. I felt bad as he drove me home, but what else could I do? He totally lied about his love nest to me. What else would he lie to me about in the future?
That night my friend told me about a fantastic link she visited that took her to hundreds of great dating sites. Since I had nothing to lose I decided to give it a try.
I joined at least three different sites that looked like they would meet my needs, but after a few months, I had almost given up hope. It was not as if I was not meeting men, it was just that there was no spark when we finally dated in person. That je ne sais quois is just so necessary for a long term relationship. I had 'settled' the first time around, and I was determined not to make the same mistake again. It was at this point that I met 'him'! He was what I was looking for. Finally! It was as if God had tailor made him for me! We talked online for several weeks and then he gave me his phone number and asked me to give him a call. The first time I called him, his voice seemed very familiar to me. Something was nagging at me that I knew that voice, but I just could not figure out where from. I just put it down to coincidence, and that he just sounded a bit like someone I knew. We laughed and joked as we talked over the next few weeks. I had such an easy time talking to him. I was so joyous I got that link. I still cannot imagine what a better gift could be. I was floating on air. I felt like a teenager again. Bubbling with enthusiasm and overjoyed. All my friends noticed and remarked on it! What a joy he brought to my life!
The only thing that was strange about our online relationship was that I had never seen his face. He would not do video chats, and he would not even send me a picture of himself. Whenever I pressed him on the issue, he said that he did not think that someone should be judged by their looks alone and that he felt that a face to face meeting was the best way to judge someone.The day came for me to meet him. He seemed a bit weird to me when we talked on the phone the day before. He suggested that I would run the other way when I saw him and that left me confused. I was beginning to be concerned about what he looked like. I had visions of the Hump Back of Notre Dame going through my head! Even when I gave him my assurances that I would stay put, he still seemed unconvinced.
Instead of picking me up, he insisted on meeting me at his country place. So he gave me the directions to his place. On the way, I experienced Deja Vu a few times. It was almost as if I knew what was around some of the bends before I got there. As the feeling grew more intense, it finally dawned on my why this was so familiar. This was the same area where the guy with the snakes in his tent lived! I almost turned around right on the spot, but what could I do? I had given him my word. So I kept on going. He met me on the road about a half mile from where I was to meet him, no wonder he was worried I would run.
I jumped out of the car and rushed to the back to open the trunk. I was looking for the tire iron so I could show him what I thought of his duplicity! He ran up to me and pinned my arms before I could do anything rash. I told me to please relax so that I could see his real surprise. We walked the rest of the way to where we had set up the tent so long ago. I kept looking for snakes, so I was not paying that much attention. When he told me to look up, I was stunned! I was looking at the cutest summer cottage that I had ever seen.. He told me he wanted to contact me earlier because he had really fallen for me. He said he knew he wouldn't have much of a chance with me unless he could prove that he was a decent, caring, hard-working person and not just another kook.
He told me he decided to finish the cottage for me first, because I deserved something special and nice. He took out a loan and used all his savings. He did all that just for me! “WOW!” I was overwhelmed. I began to cry to think that someone could care about me so much.
That was quite some time ago now, and things are even better now than they were then. The more I am with him, the more I love him. We got formally hitched a few months after that. The more time I spent with him, the more I realized just how special he was and how much more I loved him.
Now technically, I did not meet this guy on that dating site really, but if I had not met him again anonymously, I would likely have never given him that second chance. Ouch! Thank God for that dating site! My best friend has earned my perpetual gratitude for giving me that URL. I am forever grateful to her.
So if you are in that same lonely situation that I was in, and see no way out, then click the link below. It was my key to happiness, and hopefully it can be yours as well.
Meet Your Perfect Match Like I Did!
Friday, August 10, 2012
Who Needs MILF Dating
At one time thought to be taboo, the expression MILF is now not only currently in vogue, but what drives mens libidos. It seems everywhere you look you come across another MILF personals site with delicious, attractive horny housewives. Young men everywhere want to have sex with their chums Moms and MILF’s often have similar desires of bedding their son's pals.
Things have clearly taken a turn for the better for the adventurous MILF. Not only can you find them on, free online personals sites but, they also have their own free MILF dating sites. Other online dating services and sites realize how sexy and stimulating a MILF is and have designed a category just for the mature and delicious woman, often referred to as a MILF.
It’s good to know that a woman who’s been there and done that, is seen and wanted by men everywhere. Sadly, at one time, men were too shy to pursue more mature women, largely because Hollywood served up an image that made a sexy Momma nothing more than a wife always catering to her husband's whims.
I end this article confident that all woman can be hot and appealing at any age, even if she has one, or more children. Thankfully we have MILF dating sites, online personal sites and many other places young hot blooded men can go to find a wonderful, vivacious MILF.
If you are looking for other sites than those specializing in MILF Dating, then these are the links for you:
Personals
Adult Dating
Mature Dating
Gay Dating
Lesbian Dating
Swinger Dating
Dating Couples
Top 10 Online Dating
Top 100 Dating Sites
If This Article Has Peaked Your Interest Then You Should Visit The Link Below:
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Thursday, July 19, 2012
Lesbian Relationships
For a great deal of lesbians, finding another woman to love can be as easy as going online to a lesbian dating website (or even some more general purpose online dating sites) and creating an informative profile that is interesting to others, and then just sit back and wait for people to connect with you. Sounds easy right , well it is, but you will have even more success if you reach out to other people on the site. Look at other people's profiles and reach out to them via chat or email on the site. You will likely find some really interested women to connect with. On top of that, you may find some ideas that you might want to capitalize on and add to your profile. If someone's wording or ideas caught your eye, then similar wording or ideas might help your profile catch someone else's eye. Many lesbians are often exposed to different types of groups of people as they go about social, work or other events of importance in their lives. If you are someplace where you already have things in common with many of the people present these could be good places to meet someone new and get a relationship started.
A common mistake that a lot of lesbians make when having their first relationship is getting too involved too early. Before you end up waking up next to someone you hardly know. Go out together for a while, get to know each other to find out what you have in common. You should have some common interests, values and plans for the future that will compliment each other. Share things with each other, if you get a new job, if a friend has a baby, a party is planned, a commendation you might have gotten, share these things with you partner, after all, they are your best friend, not just your lover.
If you are at a family gathering or with friends and someone starts telling gay and lesbian jokes that are in bad taste and insulting to you and your partner, and you see your partner is upset by it, just get up and leave, tell them you came to enjoy yourselves not to listen to a lot of trash about how other people live their lives One awkward situation would be to find yourselves at a social or family gathering and hear people dissing the gay and lesbian community at large. This will require you to make a stand and let people know that you will not tolerate statements of that nature. Insult them if you have to. If your family and friends are aware of your sexual preference then tell them that you are not at all happy about what was said, and if they really think that, then they are lowlifes that you do not want to associate with anymore. You will love who you want and you don't care what anybody else thinks or says.
Introduce your partner to your friends and family and involve them in everything that you do. This is an important step to establishing and keeping a relationship.
Being one of God's chosen people, at least when it comes to aids, lesbians are just so lucky that their partner fully gets what it takes to satisfy them sexually. Women just know what they need to do to keep each other hyped up during sex. Gay men have a similar advantage, but too bad about the aids specter. Pity the poor heterosexual couples where each party is not quite sure what makes the other either satisfied or happy.
The lesbian life is the best that there is, so love your life and live it to the max. Live, love and share your life with others, and surround yourself with friends and family who will be there for you in both good times and bad.
Just remember people are always a little uneasy about things they really don't understand so try to stick with those who have a positive attitude. Since you are lesbians, then it would be best if many of your friends are from the lesbian community. Open minded heterosexual friends are tough to find, so if you have a few, cherish them and nurture them.
God created Adam and Eve, but much suppressed in the early bible was any reference to Eva, who was Eve's lesbian playmate. God was amazing, because she totally understood the needs of women.
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